tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26169186.post116051175501091720..comments2014-04-03T06:58:48.135+05:30Comments on The Diplomat's Daughter: The Diplomat's Daughterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13653981379381721238noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26169186.post-1462442976656198422007-02-20T22:32:00.000+05:302007-02-20T22:32:00.000+05:30This is good. Yup....I have a personel interest in...This is good. Yup....I have a personel interest in this and I cant stop ranting in my personal dhaba moments over the issue.<BR/><BR/>You put things very well. And I would like to add that a lot of these identifiable 'victorian' values are passed on as Indian culture. <BR/><BR/>The drift of the Indian Culture argument goes like this........opposition to the closed mindedness related to sex is interpreted as coming from someone who believes in free sex (yup, I sure do) and the next step in the argument they use the example of America (hahaha) and cite the divorce rates (based on impressions from media (movies and stars) at its most accurate). <BR/><BR/>There is this joke about a young boy asking his mother how he was born and she replies that we prayed to the gods for so many months. The kid further questions her on how his dad was born and how is grandad was born. To all his questions his mother replies that they prayed, went on a pilgrimage, propitiated (spell?) the gods and such explanations. The boy, mature beyond his years as kids are these days, loses patience and asks his mother, doesnt anyone fu*& in our family? <BR/><BR/>The above joke to my mind explains a lot of the 'indian' attitude.itineranthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00764520998085530843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26169186.post-1160805422576317862006-10-14T11:27:00.000+05:302006-10-14T11:27:00.000+05:30Hey Sarah,I ask those questions myself all the tim...Hey Sarah,<BR/>I ask those questions myself all the time, and I honestly have no idea. I guess its easy to blame the British, but there must have been some weird moral strain running through Indian society for Victorian values to be adopted with such ease. Who knows?<BR/>And hey - what happened to my e-mail?!<BR/>Ha ha...The Diplomat's Daughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13653981379381721238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26169186.post-1160533253157935572006-10-11T07:50:00.000+05:302006-10-11T07:50:00.000+05:30Lovely article! Thank you for presenting and anal...Lovely article! Thank you for presenting and analyzing the situation so clearly. I'm familiar with the leering/eveteasing directed at single women in New Delhi, but I didn't know the staring extended to couples, especially MARRIED COUPLES!!! Those reactions to the one women's wedding exhuberance and the other's handholding-on-honeymoon (!) are unbelievable.<BR/><BR/>Like you say, there are so many well-loved stories, songs, (films!) from India's past and present which celebrate romantic/erotic love without shame. How and when do you think this moral disapproval developed? Do you think it was strongest during the Victorian age or has it become even more strong in recent years? I'm very curious and baffled about this aspect of life in India, and the way it ties into the whole 'taking pleasure in other's pain' effect. <BR/><BR/>Looking forward to your next article!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com